Thursday, April 15, 2010


happy nine month birthday, alden! you serious little man, you.

month eight was a rough one. poor alden spent most of it with a grumbly, sad belly. last weekend was the horrible finale (we hope!) and he's feeling much better now. we all are. ah, except for those pesky teeth--they just won't stop coming in. he's working very hard on numbers five and six right now. five just cut through tonight, making settling down more of a chore than it's been in a long time.

oh right, we may have neglected to mention that sir has outgrown his need for the moby wrap and yoga ball! that's right! around the 8 month mark, alden started acting very grumpy and wriggly when i'd tuck him in to be bounced to sleep. one night i finally took the hint (or gave up? hard to remember which) and just stuck him in bed to nurse. lo and behold--he fell asleep! the next day, i tried it at nap time and what do you know? he fell asleep! it's so refreshing.

of course, then he fell out of bed. we won't go into the details. suffice it to say that he fared FAR better than his poor old moms, who was an absolute wreck. the crib was promptly put together and when he refused (and continues to refuse) to do anything but stand and scream in it, pillows and blankets were piled at the side of the bed where he fell. this weekend, the bed goes on the floor. sigh. we haven't lost faith in the crib just yet, but it's going to be a long transition, i think.

apologies for the lack of posting around here. bun is more active than ever. just today he learned about cabinets--that they open and hide all manner of forbidden treasures. he's also learned that filthy trash cans and the toilet make excellent drums. he definitely has a percussive bent. and a rebellious one. it's going to be tricky to keep up with him and help foster his need to explore instead of accidentally stifling him with no-nos and worrying.

3 comments:

  1. You could try to put him in his crib with toys and play with him for a few minuets during the day. make it a fun place to be. my son thinks his crib is fun, and even though its fun he sleeps peacefully in it. worth a try?

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  2. we cosleep, too. we started out by side-carring our crib to our bed but as soon as she started rolling over we dismantled everything and now sleep with the mattress on the floor.

    ramona pretty much refuses to sleep anywhere but right next to me. i think it's going to be a long transition to crib for us too. you're not alone!

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  3. jessica, yeah! totally. he will play in it for a few minutes, but if we put him down, even once asleep...poof! instant screaming. he's been ridiculously dramatic about everything lately. we're hoping it's just a phase...

    thanks, kaity! i actually feel SO much better and more relaxed about it now that the mattress is on the floor. you were wise to put the bed down right away. we just have to learn the hard way, i guess. :/

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